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Dealing with Grief after the Death of a Loved One

I advise some people who don’t have a Dharma background that, because you lived with the person who died, you have created a strong connection with him or her. Because of that, you’ll meet again in a future life.

Unexpected Death in the Family

The father of a very devoted student in Singapore died suddenly one morning, shaking the family deeply. The other family members were particularly upset with God for taking their father away.

After the Death of a Loved One

My dear Jane and Jim,I am very sorry that our very dear ex-director and student passed away. You should not worry. In my divination, some days before he passed away, it came out positive that he will have a good rebirth.

Teacher Passed Away

Make these for your teacher:Five Kadampa stupa tsa tsasFour Guru Rinpoche statues, the large size tsa tsas 

Jury Duty

This is difficult, especially if you are a Buddhist monk. You should just go there and humbly explain that you are a Buddhist and have vows not to harm others, so you cannot do the jury duty. This also an education for them about Buddhists.

How to Continue Life as a Monk

Morality is the road to liberation from samsara. With morality, it´s easy. Without morality, life creates obstacles for realizations, and then it creates sufferings.

Tired Through Working for Others

Please tell her, “Tired but worthwhile.” We can be tired because we are not yet freed from delusion and karma, and our body and mind are in the nature of suffering, but in this case we are tired through benefiting sentient beings.

Teaching Dharma Has Great Benefit

This kind of temporary help doesn’t really eliminate the root of suffering, samsara. But your teaching Dharma to sentient beings has great benefit. That eliminates the very cause of samsara.

Ordained Mother and Daughter

Dear Mum,Thank you for being a mum to your daughter. I appreciate your views and your kindness in your recent message to me.Please continue to help others, which is helping yourself to achieve enlightenment.

Shaving Hair to Renounce Attachment

While you are shaving your hair, remember how not to waste this most precious human body, which is most rare, and this precious human rebirth, qualified by the eight freedoms and ten richnesses, which is much more precious.