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Advice book

What to Do at the Moment of Death

My most dear, kindest brother,Please look at this mantra quite often. Especially look at this mantra when you are leaving this old body. Dear one, please don’t cling to anything, and let yourself be completely free.

If You Are About to Die

Generally speaking, bodhicitta. That’s the safest one. But, for somebody who has good concentration, there’s meditation on emptiness.

Creating Merit After Parents’ Death

For your father: read the Prajnaparamita, and make a statue of the Buddha, five feet tall. For your mother: make a statue of Manjushri, four feet tall.   

Tsa-tsas for a Deceased Parent

My dear Pauline,I am very sorry to hear about your mother, I have done prayers for her. Your mother has given us a good teaching. She has shown us that the nature of life is impermanence, and death can happen at any time.

Family Deaths

Dear John,I checked about your brothers and father and advise the following:

The Cause of a Long Life

My very dear one,Thank you very much for your kind letter. I am very sorry for the long delay in replying. I am also very sorry for your loss. I have been making prayers for your daughter and also for your whole family.

Letter to Steve Irwin's Family

My very dear Janine,I am the spiritual head of the FPMT, which is a worldwide organization devoted to benefiting society through the practice and philosophy of Tibetan Buddhism, education, public service, health, and culture.